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农历年的钟声就要敲响了，忙碌了一年的朋友们，让我们放下手中的工作，微笑着和我们的家人，亲朋好友享受这和家团圆的快乐吧！成功周刊又与大家见面了，感激过去的一年里陪伴着成功俱乐部一起成长的朋友们！我是这一期的编辑孙若缨，我代表成功俱乐部的所有同仁给大家拜一个早年。恭祝大家在新的一年里身体健康！万事如意！拥有更多更美好的希望！

在这洋溢着节日气氛的冬日早晨，我收到了一位来自东北的朋友的来信：“在成功俱乐部，我感受着不一样的氛围，好像被注入了一股新鲜血液。生活每天都充满着希望，充满着激情，天空也更加明朗。走进成功俱乐部是我人生的转折点，我感觉成功在向我呼唤，与越多的成功和在走向成功的人士做朋友，我坚信我会拥有不一样的人生.”看罢，心中有一种暖暖的感觉。每每读到这样的文字，我都被感动着！是的，我们一直在努力，希望我们的成功俱乐部可以凝聚更多渴望成功的朋友，和我们携手上路，探索成功，在我们的成功周刊里共同分享岁月中美好的，经典的，感悟的，触动的文字。让我们可以永远保持着积极乐观的心态，学会面对生活，挑战自我，拥有成功！

曾经有一位我很敬佩的老师这样对我说：“生命的真正意义在于我们能做自己想做的事情。如果我们总是被迫去做自己不喜欢的事情，我们就不可能拥有成功。可以肯定，每个人都可以并且有能力做自己想做的事，想做每件事情的愿望本身就说明你具备相应的才能或潜质。”所以说，在你想取得成功之前还有一个很重要的事情。就是根据你自己的喜好订立你想奋斗的目标---“我想要做什么”！在下面的小帖子里，我们介绍了确定目标的另一种方法,希望对大家有所帮助！

[本期成功周刊为方便英语学习爱好者，我们采用了中、英文对照的格式]

本期赠言

富爸爸如是说：“大人物有大梦想，小人物有小梦想。要想改变你的未来，从改变你的梦想开始！”
----罗伯特.T.清崎
“Rich dad said it this way, big people have big dreams and small people have small dreams. If you want to change who you are, begin by changing the size of your dreams.”

本期文章

下次，你再听到传言的时候，或是想将它告诉别人的时候，请想一想这个故事。

在古希腊，苏格拉底因为他的聪慧而闻名于世。一天，这位伟大的哲学家偶然遇到了一位朋友，他的朋友兴奋的对他说：”苏格拉底，我刚刚听到了一些关于你学生的事情，你想听吗？”“等等”苏格拉底答到：”在你告诉我之前我想让你做个小测试，叫做三重过滤测验。”“三重过滤？”“是的，在你告诉我之前，有必要花些时间对你所说的话进行过滤。首先需要过滤的是其真实性。对于这件事的真实性你证实过吗？”“没有，”那人说：“事实上我也是刚刚听到的而且马上就来...”“好，那也就是说你不确定你所听到的是真的还是假的。下面是第二重过滤，过滤其优良性。你要告诉我关于我学生的事，是好事吗？”“不，事实上刚好相反......”

“也就是说，”苏格拉底继续说，“你想告诉我一些关于我学生的坏消息，而你又不确定这个消息的真实性。你可以继续做完这个测试，因为只有最后一重过滤了：对其有效性进行过滤。你要告诉我的事对我有帮助吗？” “不，没什么帮助。”最后，苏格拉底总结道：”既然你要告诉我的事既不真实也不是什么好事，对我又毫无用处，那你为什么要告诉我？”

这就是为什么苏格拉底被誉为伟大的哲学家并且有如此高的声誉！

Keep this in mind the next time you either hear or are about to repeat arumor! In ancient Greece (469 - 399 BC), Socrates was well known for his wisdom.

One day the great philosopher came upon an acquaintance who said excitedly, “Socrates, do you know what I just heard about one of your students?

“Wait a moment.” Socrates replied.

“Before telling me anything I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Triple Filter Test. “Triple filter?” “That's right.” Socrates continued “Before you talk to me about my student, it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you're going to say. The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?

“No,” the man said: “actually I just heard about it and ...”

“All right,” said Socrates. “So you don't really know if it's true or not. Now let's try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my student something good?”

“No, on the contrary ...”

“So.” Socrates continued, “You want to tell me something bad about him, but you’re not certain it's true. You may still pass the test though, because there's one filter left: the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my student going to be useful to me?”

“No, not really.”

“Well,” concluded Socrates, “if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?”

This is the reason Socrates was a great philosopher and held in such high esteem.

成功故事

确定目标的另一种方法
麦克尔.安吉尔

马克.吐温曾说过他可以教会任何人如何得到自己想得到的东西。可是人们都不知自己真正想要什么，马克.吐温更是无从而知。

而当今这个社会仍然与马克.吐温生活的那个年代相差无几。即使是我们这些成功网的成员们，也会经常思考我们到底想要什么的问题。在我看来，我们所面临的最大挑战就是，清楚自己想要的以及为什么想要得到它。

人们总是在还没有弄清楚“是什么”与“为什么”之前，就先去考虑“怎样做”。最近，在给身价百万的人召开的圆桌会议上，我给他们布置了一份作业。我要求他们将自己的所想与所需列出一张清单。为了帮助他们思考得更详细更深刻一些，我提出了一些问题供参考。我担心他们会因为这个问题看起来太简单了而不认真做练习。

但象很多问题一样，最简单的过程往往产生最深刻的结果。采取一种不同的方法，将每个人心底的希望挖掘出来。清楚自己想要做什么才会有动力，而当我们发掘出心底真正的需要与热情时，想要达到目标可能会更容易一些。做这个练习的人对自己的内心有了更深刻的了解，并且发掘出了更深层的需要，而这些是以前所不曾了解的。

我将过程简单的概括出来，问题也一一列出来，便于你自己深入考虑问题。如果你可以花些时间来思考并且将出现的问题记录下来，我相信你可以找到自己的位置：不是一味的确立与完成越来越多的目标，而是选择那些可以充分反映你的价值与需要的目标。

在这样的日子里，我希望你：

更加了解自己

更相信自己

身体健康

赚更多的钱

内心更祥和

对生活的热情越来越高

                             A Different Approach to Goal Setting
                                   By Michael Angier

Mark Twain once claimed he could teach anyone how to get whatever they wanted. But lamented that he couldn't find anyone who truly knew what they wanted. And it's still as true today as it was in Mark Twain's time. Even we esteemed subscribers and members of Success Net oftentimes only THINK we know what we want. Being clear on what we ant and why we want it is, in my humble opinion, one of the biggest challenges we face. People are quick to jump into the “how” even when they aren't sure of the “what” and the “why”.
    I recently gave my Million Dollar Round Table a homework assignment. I asked them to make a list of what they thought they wanted and needed. To assist in digging deeper and thinking
    Better, I provided them with some questions. I was concerned they wouldn't take the exercise seriously enough because it seemed too simple. But like many things, the simplest process often yields the most profound results. By taking a different approach, everyone gained new insights into their heart's desire. Clarity leads to power and as we uncover our real desires and passions, we can more easily achieve our goals. Those who did this exercise reported significant insights and uncovered wants and desires they didn't know they had.
    I've organized these questions and outlined this process so you can use it to brainstorm with yourself. If you invest some time in thinking and recording what comes up, I believe you will Position yourself for setting and achieving not only more goals, but goals that better reflect your values and desires.

In this holiday season, I wish for you:

More clarity

Greater belief in yourself

Better health

Greater wealth

More peace

Increased passion

卷尾语

成功不是一条风和日丽的坦途，在探索成功的过程中，我们可能要经历很多的风雨与磨难，面对一次次挫折与失败，我们既不能怨天尤人，也不能自暴自弃。在确定好自己奋斗的目标以后，永不放弃的朝你的目标努力，成功之门距离我们就真的不远了！让我们在新的一年里，携手努力奋斗吧！

再次恭祝大家有一个快乐祥和的新春佳节！每天都可以收获幸福与喜悦！

[总编：吴丽雯本期编辑：孙若缨翻译：一乔供稿：健飞版面设计：coollee]
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